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在英国,一本名为《说不——为什么这对你和你的孩子非常重要》的书取得巨大成功。作者阿莎·菲利普斯肯定说,对出生几个月的婴儿应该明确规定一些界限。她写道:“在适当的时候拒绝说‘不’的父母剥夺了子女表露情感的能力。” 阿莎还说,应该由父母选择说“不”的适当时机和方式。现在,打或强制进行体罚显然是荒谬和不能接受的做法。“当孩子固执要求做某件事时,象征性地轻轻打几下是父母应采取的有益态度。与从父母那里得到爱、亲昵和友情一样,孩子应该学习的包括失望、愤怒、仇恨、争论和放弃。”
In the UK, a book titled “No - why this is so important to you and your children” has been a huge success. Asha Phillips, the author, affirmed that some boundaries should be clearly set for babies born for months. She wrote: “Parents who refuse to say ’no’ at an appropriate time deprive their children of their ability to reveal their emotions.” Asha added that parents should be given the right time and the choice to say “no.” It is clearly an absurd and unacceptable practice to fight or enforce corporal punishment now. “When a child stubbornly claims to do something, the symbolic touch of a few flesh is a helpful attitude parents should take, and as with parents, love, affection, and friendship, children should learn to be disappointed, angry, hatred, Argue and give up. ”