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儿子快要高中毕业了,报考哪一类大学呢?父母为此煞费苦心。他们今天与同事商量,明天征求亲友的意见。工科、理科还是文科?他们左盘算右掂量,怎么也定不下来。为此,他们心绪不宁,食不甘味。然而,他们却把当事人——报考大学的儿子撇在一边。在这个人生的重要抉择上,他们剥夺了孩子的权利。孩子喜欢文科、但父母却硬要他报考工科。结果落选了,他们不责怪自己代替孩子填错了志愿,反而埋怨孩子读书不用心或天资愚钝。诸如上述这种遇事不征求孩子的意见、一切都得由父母作出取舍的现象,在目前的家庭教育中是普遍存在的。
My son is going to graduated from high school, apply for a class of university? Parents take great pains. They discuss with colleagues today and seek the views of relatives and friends tomorrow. Engineering, science or liberal arts? They calculate the amount of right 掂 left, how can not set it down. To this end, they are restless, food is not sweet taste. However, they left the client, the son of the university who applied for the college, aside. In this important decision of life, they deprive children of their rights. Children like liberal arts, but parents insist that he apply for engineering. The result was unsuccessful, they do not blame themselves instead of children to fill in the wrong volunteers, but complain about children do not read carefully or dull. Such as the above-mentioned failing to solicit the views of children, all have to make the choice of parents by the phenomenon, in the present family education is ubiquitous.