一与她相交三十年,却鲜有到对方家里吃饭、做家务、聚会或彼此交换信物的亲热行为,似乎我们均不屑俗常好友层面上的表达,乃至内心的隐秘、某些际遇竟亦不提及。从少年到中年,仿佛挂在同一树干上的秋千,各自有各自的摇摆速度和幅度,经风沐雨,陪伴中走向各自的路途。这种友谊颇为畸形,在她,是一味付出,在我,是一味收受。倘交换位置,她会为自己 It is not surprising that we all disdain the expressions of common-level friends and even the hidden secrets of some of our friends even though we rarely meet each other’s family members for meals, housework, parties or mutual exchanging letters. Not mentioned. From juvenile to middle age, as if hanging on the same swing on the same trunk, each with its own swing speed and magnitude, the wind Muyu, accompany to go their own way. This friendship is quite deformity, in her, is blindly pay, in me, is blindly accepted. She will be her own if she exchanges position