人很容易着急。自己吃亏、上当受骗、利益受损,每每这时,人就容易急。而急的下一步,就是跟人言语相讥、针锋相对、据理力争、针尖对麦芒,一番刀光剑影下来,往往两败俱伤。自己不但没有讨回真理,却又白白惹了一肚子气,赔了夫人又折兵。有时由于愿望落空了,人也跟自己急,跟自己过不去,结果只能把自己伤得遍体鳞伤。所以,遇事不能急。 People are very anxious. Own disadvantage, deceived, the interests of damage, often at this time, people are vulnerable. The urgent next step is to retort with words, tit-for-tat, argued that the tip of the straw, some Swordsmanship down, often lose-lose. Not only did he not get back the truth, but in vain hesitated, losing his wife and off the beaten. Sometimes because of the wish-making fall, people also anxious with themselves, with their own way, the result can only hurt myself over and over again. So, failing in a hurry.