如果想让孩子从事一项需要长期坚持的事情,一定要和孩子充分沟通,给他留下选择的余地。顺其自然的教育是指顺应孩子的天性,给他最需要、最恰当的教育。怎么掌握这个分寸?我认为:第一,出发点是帮助孩子成就他自己;第二,方式方法上要对事不对人,态度温和而坚定。出发点决定了事情的 If you want children to engage in a long-term need to do things, we must fully communicate with the children, leaving him room for choice. Let it be natural education refers to follow the child’s nature, give him the most needed, the most appropriate education. How to grasp this sense of proportion? I think: First, the starting point is to help children accomplish his own; second, ways and means to right things, mild and firm attitude. The starting point decided things