“中国文化之最大偏失,就在个人永不被发现这一点上。一个人简直没有站在自己立场说话机会,多少感情要求被压抑,被抹杀。”数年前在《中国文化要义》(259页)中读到这句话,至今难忘,它毕竟是发自中国“最后一位儒家”的由衷感慨。在中国,忘“我”的道德压力实在是太大了。最近读到的一本书再次证明了国人对“我”的畏惧。这本书的作者是十月革命后移居美国的俄国女 “The greatest loss of Chinese culture, in the individual will never be found on this point, a person simply did not stand in his position to speak, how many feelings of repression, was denied.” A few years ago in the “Essentials of Chinese Culture” ( 259), it has been unforgettable today. It is, after all, the sincere feeling of “the last Confucianist” from China. In China, it is too much moral pressure to forget “I”. Recently read a book once again proved that people on the “me” fear. The book is written by Russian women who immigrated to the United States after the October Revolution