打从儿子读小学起,除了必开的家长会,我一般不去学校过问孩子的情况。我这种不主动配合学校教育孩子的做法,虽然在一定程度上培养了儿子独立处事的能力,却也难免引起误解,冤枉老师。不久前的—个中午,饭毕,儿子怯生生道:“下午学校大扫除,我要小桶子。” Playing from his son to elementary school, apart from the parents will be open, I generally do not go to school to ask the child’s situation. My practice of not cooperating with the school to educate children actively, although to a certain extent, has developed my son’s ability to act independently, but it inevitably leads to misunderstanding and wronged teachers. Not long ago - a noon, dinner, his son timid way: “afternoon school cleaning, I want a small bucket.”