很多做妻子的都承认,她们需要爱抚,渴望得到抚摸、拥抱和接吻,但这种要求并不意味着在性行为上有进一步的发展要求,但事实并非如此。丈夫们常常误解妻子的意思,一见妻子有热情的表示,就认为是妻子想过性生活,于是他们就发动起来,造成了“箭在弦上,不得不发”的局面。每当这种时刻,妻子只得顺水推舟。事情的结果是“丈夫以为是满足了妻子的要求,而妻子却感到她的情感被误解了,以至于她们再也不敢表达自己对爱的要求,也不知道今后该怎样表达才合适。由此看来,夫妻之间在性方面产生了误解。 Many wives have acknowledged that they need caressing, longing for touching, hugging and kissing, but this requirement does not imply further developmental requirements for sexual activity, but this is not the case. Husbands often misunderstand the meaning of their wives. When their wives showed enthusiasm, they thought their wives had thought of sex life, and they started up and created a situation in which they had to ”make mistakes.“ Whenever this moment, his wife had to push the boat. The result was ”the husband thought it was his wife’s request, and his wife felt her emotion was misunderstood, so that they no longer dared to express their love of the request, do not know how to express in the future is appropriate. From this, there is a misunderstanding of sexuality between husband and wife.