本文探讨“恨不得”与“巴不得”之间的意义差别。文章认为,“恨不得”与“巴不得”不是同义词或近义词:“恨不得”用来引出说话者对当事人的某种情状的强烈程度的形象化描述;而“巴不得”则是表示当事人的真实愿望。通过与其他表示愿望的词语的比较,文章指出,“巴不得”所表示的大多是当事人不能够或不愿意主动去实现的愿望;而在我们说及当事人的这种愿望因为其他的外在因素变成了现实或是有可能变成现实的时候,便是使用“巴不得”的最典型语境。文章同时指出,“巴不得”也有被用来表示“恨不得”的意思的时候,但这种用法是否规范仍需进一步观察与探讨。 This article explores the difference between what is meant by hatred and what is unbearable. In the opinion of the article, “can not wait” and “do not want to be” are not synonymous or synonyms: “can not wait” is used to elicit the speaker’s visual description of the intensity of a particular situation of the parties; By comparing with other expressions of desire, the article points out that most of what Babysades expresses is the desire that the parties can not or is not willing to take the initiative to achieve. When we say that the parties’ wishes are changed due to other external factors When it becomes reality or is likely to become a reality, it is the most typical context that uses the “mighty” element. At the same time, the article also pointed out that “the last resort” has also been used to express the meaning of “can not wait”, but whether this usage is normative still needs further observation and discussion.