双职工家庭里父母同孩子接触的时间少,一些家长由于对孩子的心里活动不了解,往往不是百般依顺,过分溺爱,就是简单粗暴,管教过严。无疑这两种倾向对孩子的身心发育都是不利的。要想教育得当,首先必须做有心人,花一点时间和精力去了解孩子的心理活动,从中悟出他们的精神需求,这样你就会懂得怎样同孩子进行思想感情和生活体验等方面 In the dual-employment family, parents spend less time with their children. Some parents, who do not understand the activities of their children, often do not follow the rules of everybody and spoil them. They are simple and rude and have strict discipline. Undoubtedly, these two tendencies are not good for children’s physical and mental development. To be educated properly, we must first be conscientious, spend a little time and effort to understand children’s psychological activities, to realize their spiritual needs, so you will know how to think and feelings of children and life experience and so on