由祖辈或保姆的宝宝越来越多,可是保姆和祖辈的角色不同,他们往往会在带小孩时出现很多的不同观点和做法。保姆和祖辈谁带小孩好?他们的关系该如何处理?我们以电话调查的形式对若干雇有保姆的家庭进行了采访,然后整理出5个家庭的回答。根据事先的约定,我们在文中均使用化名。被调查家庭的资料见下表。 There are more and more babies from ancestors or nannies, but nannies and ancestors have different roles, and they often have many different opinions and practices with their children. Nanny and grandparents who bring children are good? How should their relationship be dealt with? We conducted a telephone survey of several nannies families interviewed, and then sorted out the answers of five families. According to prior agreement, we use the pseudonym in the text. The information of the surveyed families is shown in the table below.