一次家访,一位家长向我告状,说他的孩子最近特别不听话,经常与家长对着干,弄得父母一筹莫展。像这个男生这样不顺从或反抗权威(尤其是反抗父母或教师)的教育现象,就是我们通常所说的“逆反心理”。现代心理研究表明:逆反心理大都具有危害性。逆反心理过重或自己不善于处理和自 At a family visit, a parent complained to me that his child has been particularly displeased lately and often has to do with his parents so that his parents can not do anything. The phenomenon of education, such as the boy’s disobedience or defiance of authority, especially against his parents or teachers, is what we commonly refer to as “rebelliousness.” Modern psychology research shows that most of the reverse psychology is harmful. Reversed psychology or their own not good at dealing with and from