在面对挫折的时候,很多人的第一反应就是——逃避。逃避,并不等于问题就不存在了,相反,事情也许因为没有得到及时的处理而变得更加糟糕。记得一个笑话里讲两个相互敌对的人狭路相逢,其中一个立即厌恶地闭上眼睛,结果不小心落入了路边的陷阱,摔得鼻青脸肿,旁人很奇怪他为什么要闭上眼睛,他快快地说道:“只有这样对面那家伙才能从我眼前消失呀!” In the face of setbacks, many people’s first reaction is - to escape. Escaping does not mean that the problem does not exist. Instead, things may get worse because they have not been dealt with promptly. I remember a joke about two mutually hostile people meet, one of them immediately closed his eyes in disgust, the result accidentally fell into the trap of the roadside, blunt swollen, others are very strange why he closed his eyes, he quickly Said: “Only in this way can the guy across from me disappear!”