女儿4岁了。对孩子的教育,我一向注重培养她的独立意识和自理能力,因而,往往在老人们心疼的目光下严厉地要求孩子去做这做那,孩子似乎也很乐意做事。可是,不久,我便“指挥”不动她了。我想,这孩子是越变越懒了。于是,我便竭力想重新激发起孩子独立做事的意识,凡是她能够做的都毫不留情地让她自己去做。然而,我的努力还是付诸东流了。 Daughter is 4 years old. As for the children’s education, I have always focused on cultivating her independent consciousness and self-care ability. Therefore, children are often asked to do this severely under the distressed eyes of the old people. Children also seem to be happy to do things. However, soon, I will “direct” her. I think this child is getting lazy. As a result, I tried very hard to re-inspire children to work independently aware that she can do whatever mercilessly let her do it. However, my efforts are still gone.