几乎所有的儿童心理学家都曾指出过:个体心理健康发展的差异,都要追溯到童年时期父母对待他(她)的方式,以及个体在与已经建立情感联结的父母分离时所产生的情感体验。换句话说,个体的心理健康发展的必要条件是,婴儿和儿童需要体验到与母亲(或长期的代养母亲)的温暖、亲密和持续的关系, Almost all child psychologists have pointed out: Differences in the development of individual mental health go back to the way in which parents treated him or her during childhood, as well as the feelings that individuals develop when separated from parents who have established emotional bonds Experience. In other words, a necessary condition for the development of an individual’s mental health is that infants and children need to experience a warm, intimate and ongoing relationship with their mother (or long term adoptive mother)