美国社会心理学家费斯汀格认为:生活中10%的事情是由自身造成的,另外的90%则是由个人对所发生事情的态度所决定的。换言之,生活中有10%的事情是我们无法掌控的,而另外的90%却是我们能够掌控的。我们先来看一个故事:马志明早上洗漱时,随手将自己高档手表放在洗漱台边,妻子怕被水淋湿了,就随手拿过去放在餐桌上。儿子起床后到餐桌上拿面 According to Fisiting, a social psychologist in the United States, 10% of life is caused by itself, and the other 90% is determined by the individual’s attitude towards what happened. In other words, 10% of our lives are out of our control, while the other 90% are ours. Let’s look at a story: Ma Zhiming wash your hands in the morning, readily put their own high-end watches on the balcony, his wife was afraid of being wet with water, they readily took on the table. Son up to the table after getting up