1.结婚之前:都说婆媳关系难处理,我想,我八面玲珑的,应该能处好。结婚之后:婆媳关系太难处理了。2.结婚之前:可以做婆婆的女儿。结婚之后:婆婆永远是婆婆,妈妈永远是妈妈。3.结婚之前:我一定要做个好人,孝顺我和他的爹妈。结婚之后:孝不孝顺不是我做什么能改变的,是爸妈觉得你孝顺 1. Before marriage: say that the relationship between mother and daughter difficult to deal with, I think I smooth and well, should be good at. After marriage: mother-daughter relationship is too difficult to deal with. 2. Before marriage: Daughter can be her mother. After marriage: mother-in-law will always be mother-in-law, mother will always be mother. 3. Before getting married: I must be a good man, filial me and his parents. After marriage: filial piety is not what I can do to change, is my parents think you filial piety