“做女人难,做一个在性方面幸福的快乐的女人更难。”这是最近一位国外性学家在一份性学文献上说的话。这句话说得真好,其背后含义是女性在两性交往中有其特有的性意识、性能力和性行为,而在数千年男本位为主流的社会文化中,所有这些可能并不被众多的男性和女性所正确理解和正确对待,这就使她们难以在两性生活中成为真正的主人。那么男女两性是否存在着性差异,这种性差异又缘何而来,我们又该如何正确对待呢?这就是我们现在要讨论的话题。男女两性是从不同星球上来的人早在一百多年前,达尔文就曾说过: “It’s harder to be a woman and harder to be a happy woman who is sexually happy.” This is what a foreign sexologist recently said in a sex literature. The remark goes so well that the underlying implication is that women have their own sexual awareness, sexuality and sexuality in their sexual intercourse, and all of these may not be numerous in the social milieu of male-dominated societies Men and women correctly understand and correctly treat them, making it hard for them to become true masters in their sex life. So, is there any sex difference between men and women? What is the difference between these sexes? How should we treat it correctly? This is the topic we are going to discuss now. Men and women are from different planets As early as a hundred years ago, Darwin once said: