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天津某中学的初三学生张潇艺在网吧连续玩游戏36小时,被父亲斥责后,便从24层楼跳楼自杀了,给父母留下终身的遗憾。心理辅导员沈老师说:“现在,孩子面临空前的升学和竞争压力,自身的耐挫能力很差,受到心理挫折时往往选择躲避到网络虚拟世界或一味地压在心底,这时一部分孩子就会由失望、抑郁走向自闭。”一部分父母认为孩子只要成绩好,沉浸在音乐、网络或动漫中,“内向点儿就内向点儿吧”。其实,这些很少与外界沟通的孩子是将惊人的心理能量全部蓄积到了自己的“孤独城堡”里,等他们某一天自认为“被全世界都抛弃”时,便会走向听话、乖觉的反面,重演张潇艺的悲剧。那么,孩子们缘何把自己关在“城堡”中呢?用什么方法才能使其走出心牢昵?先请几位父母来谈谈他们的经验教训吧。
Zhang Xiaoyi, a junior high school student in a middle school in Tianjin, spent 36 hours in a row at a cybercafé. After being reprimanded by his father, he committed suicide from a 24-floor building and left his parents regrettable lifelong. Counselor Shen teacher said: “Now, children are faced with unprecedented study and competition pressure, their ability to endure frustration, often by psychological frustration to choose to avoid the virtual world of the network or blindly pressed to the bottom of my heart, when part of the children It will be from disappointment, depression toward autism. ”Some parents think that children as long as good grades, immersed in music, the Internet or anime, In fact, these little children communicate with the outside world is all the amazing psychological energy accumulated in their own “lonely castle”, so that one day they think “” was abandoned by the world, “will go obedient , The opposite of the well-behaved, Zhang Xiao Yi repeated the tragedy. So, why do children keep themselves in the ”castle"? In what ways can make it out of the heart to imprison? First ask a few parents to talk about their lessons.