人生,很多时候要学会放弃。放弃一个朋友;放弃某种投入却无法收获的感情;放弃某种思想;甚至放弃理想。放弃这些很艰难和无奈,也许放弃时,你会生出很多伤感和沮丧,然而这种伤感并不妨碍自己去重新开始,因为这是一种自然的告别与放弃,它富有超然物外的精神,虽伤感但美丽。 In life, many times you have to learn to give up. Give up a friend; give up some kind of input but can’t reap the emotion; give up some kind of thought; even give up the ideal. Giving up on these is very difficult and helpless. Maybe when giving up, you will give birth to a lot of sadness and frustration. However, this kind of sadness does not prevent you from starting over because it is a natural farewell and abandonment. It has a supernatural spirit, though it is sad. But beautiful.