在学生成长的过程中,其内在主动性的发挥是关键所在。要保证学生主动性的发挥,使其拥有高质量的成长生活,陪伴在学生周围诸多的教育者对他们进行有效的指导就显得尤为重要。一、现实中学生发展存在的一些问题1.呈工具性倾向从人通过自身的努力以达到自身目的的角度看,人具有工具性的一面。但是,人如果被动地作为工具,进而被动地成为别人实现目的的工具, In the process of student growth, its intrinsic initiative is the key. To ensure the initiative of students play to their high quality of life, accompanied by many educators around the students to guide them effectively is particularly important. First, the reality of some problems in the development of students 1 was instrumental tendency From the perspective of people through their own efforts to achieve their own goals, people have a instrumental side. However, if one passively acts as a tool and then one passively becomes a tool for others to achieve one’s goal,