争吵是指幼儿间因意见不合而大声争辩、互不相让的行为，控告(告状)是指幼儿向老师告发别人错误和过失的行为。在幼儿园里，幼儿间争吵、控告的现象是经常发生的，年龄越小此种情况越多，这主要是因为幼儿自我控制能力还比较差，互相友爱的品德尚未形成。争吵与控告未必都是 Quarrel refers to the children arguing loudly and dissatisfied with each other’s opinions because of disagreement. The complaint (complainant) refers to a child’s behavior of notifying others of mistakes and negligence.  In kindergartens, young children quarrel, accusations are frequent, the younger the more the case, mainly because children’s self-control is still relatively poor, mutual respectable character has not yet been formed. Bickering and accusation may not be all