“棉花糖社交”是现今流行的一种处世原则和手段。如同“雷厉风行”、“言而有信”、“吃苦耐劳”这些特质一样,它作为一个代人接物的态度,运用得当即会十分有效。人和人的交往绝非单向的,在沟通和交流之中,给人吃一把清甜柔软的棉花糖,甜而不腻,柔而不弱,彬彬有礼又亲热无比。所以“棉花糖”似的柔姿态、柔社交成为了当下人们的行为准则。 “Cotton candy social ” is a prevailing principle and means of life. Just like the characteristics of “vigorous”, “assertive” and “hardworking”, as an interdependent attitude, it is very effective to use properly. Person-to-person exchanges are by no means uni-directional. In communication and exchange, they give people a sweet and soft cotton candy, sweet and not greasy, soft and weak, polite and intimate. So “cotton candy ” like soft posture, soft society has become the current code of conduct for people.