一是期待子女成为自己的翻版。做父母的常会认为子女拥有自己的遗传基因,期望子女继承父业。这样培养子女容易妨碍子女的自我发展。二是提供过多、过细的帮助。孩子一遇到困难就忙于帮助,事无巨细地给以关心。久而久之,使子女逐渐产生依赖心理。 First, expect their children to become their own copy. Parents often think that children have their own genetic genes, expect their children to inherit the father. Such training of children easily hinder their children’s self-development. The second is to provide too much, too little help. As soon as the child is in difficulty, the child is busy helping and cares about everything. Over time, children gradually rely on psychology.