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现实社会中的每个人都有自尊心、自信心、荣誉感以及羞耻心。当自尊心受到压抑时,人就会处于自卑自弃的意志消沉状态;当自信心遭到打击时,人就会表现得精神萎靡颓废;当荣誉心遭到伤害时,人就会表现出胸无大志、无所追求的气馁情绪;当羞耻心开始泯灭时,人就会表现得放荡不羁、为所欲为……当一个人的内心正处于上述某种状态时,如果你想从正面开导、引导、劝导甚至教导他,其结果常常是令人失望的。如果有意识地运用刺激性语言“将”他一军,反而可以使其自尊心、自信心、荣誉心、羞耻心迅速苏醒过来,恢复健康的的精神状态。
Everyone in the real world has self-esteem, self-confidence, honor, and shame. When the self-esteem is suppressed, the person will be in a state of depression with low self-esteem. When the self-confidence is hit, the person will manifest a lethargy and decadent spirit. When the heart of honor is harmed, the person will show no hope , Aspirational discouragement; when shame begins to wipe out, the person behaves indulgent, do whatever they want ... When one’s heart is in one of these states, if you want to preface, guide, persuade, and even teach His results are often disappointing. If you consciously use the stimulus language to “bring” him to the army, you will instead be able to quickly regain self-esteem, confidence, honor and shame, and restore a healthy mental state.