善意被人误解,才华不被承认,热情受到冷遇,成就遭到贬低,都会使人感到委屈。委屈令人难过,却也并非无益。委屈能令我们更深切地认识社会,清楚地识别人。一个优秀的人不见得比常人受的委屈少,反而因其优秀可能会受更多的委屈。萧统的《昭明文选运命论》中说:“故木秀于林,风必摧 Goodwill is misunderstood, talent is not recognized, enthusiasm is cold, and achievements are belittled, which can make people feel wronged. Grievance is sad, but it is not unprofitable. The grievances can make us understand the society more deeply and clearly identify people. A good person may not be less aggrieved than the average person, but he may be more aggrieved because of his excellence. Xiao Tong’s “The Show of the Ming Selected Works” said: "The wood show in Yulin, the wind will destroy