除了用语词进行交流之外,我们也用非语词的方式进行交流。然而,大多数情况下我们并没有意识到这一点。我们用眉毛或者手作一个动作,我们互相对视或者移开视线,我们坐在椅子上变换姿势,等等,这些都表达某种涵义。我们原以为这些动作不过是随机的,偶然的,但是,近年来研究人员发现存在一个类似于语言的行为系统,它基本上是有规律的,是能够理解的。每种文化都有自己独特的体态语,孩子们在学说语言的同时也掌握了这些体态语。一个法国人不仅说的是法语,其动作也是法国式的。英国人翘二郎腿的方法与美国人也不同。美国人在谈话时,如果要结束一个陈 In addition to using words to communicate, we also use non-verbal communication. However, in most cases we are not aware of this. We use eyebrows or hands to make an action, we look at each other or look away from each other, we sit on a chair, change posture, and so on, all of which express some meaning. We thought these actions were only random and accidental. However, in recent years, researchers have found that there is a language-like behavior system that is basically regular and understandable. Each culture has its own unique body language, children learn the language at the same time also mastered these body language. A French not only speaks French but also French. The way the British tilt their legs is different from that of the Americans. Americans in the conversation, if you want to end a Chen