在没有亲眼见到我结婚成家前,最能打动母亲的莫过于乡村里迎娶新人的唢呐和鼓点。在那些悠长而喜庆的乡村唢呐声中,母亲会马上停住手中的活计,爬上木楼,透过窗棂目送村庄里一个又一个姑娘远嫁。等到我十天半个月后一回家,母亲第一句话就是:“你看,那个能犁田耙地的二丫嫁人啦!”“你看,村代销店的冬梅也嫁啦!”把传宗接代和穿衣吃饭一同视为人生最高追求的母亲,一生从未离开过村庄,在那片黄桷树、老鹰岩、盘龙河界定 Before I saw my marriage, I was most impressed by my mother’s suona and drums in the village. In those long and festive country summons, her mother immediately stopped her hands-on activities, climbed up the wooden floor and watched one girl in the village marry through the window. Wait until I come home after ten and a half months, the mother’s first sentence is: “Look, that can be harrowed to plow the field to marry it!” “You see, the village shop Dongmei Marry it! ”The mother, who has been enshrined in her family and dressed for the most part in her life, has never left her village before,