目前,我们的家庭教育中有一种倾向是颇令人担忧的。不少家长认为,如今条件好多了,孩子又是独根独苗,无论如何不能让孩子吃苦受累了。在这种思想指导下,他们尽其所能从各方面满足孩子的需求,包括一些不必要的甚至是无理的要求,代替孩子完成一些理应由他们自己完成的事。心理学原理有一个观点认为,人如果长期生活在一种“特别幸福”的“空间”里,就会造成“健康心理过剩症”。它有两个特点:一是对幸福的感觉明显降低,二是特别害怕、不愿接触人世间的艰难困苦,甚至会将一些平常的事也误认为是痛苦而神经过敏。我们不能否认,艰难困苦是生活中的客观存在,谁也没有本事消灭它或者回避它。今天,家长也许有能力帮孩子克服一 At present, one of the trends in our family education is quite worrying. Many parents think that conditions are much better now, and children are singleton children. In any case, they can not let their children suffer. Guided by this thinking, they try their best to meet the needs of their children in all aspects, including unnecessary or even unreasonable demands, to replace their children in something that should be done by themselves. Psychological principles There is a view that people living long-term in a “special happiness ” “space ”, it will cause “mental health disorders.” It has two characteristics: First, the feeling of happiness is significantly reduced; second, it is particularly scary. It is unwilling to touch on the hardships and difficulties in the world and even mistakes some ordinary things as painful and neurotic. We can not deny that hardship and hardship are the objective existence in life. No one has the ability to destroy it or to evade it. Today, parents may have the ability to help children overcome one