解放前或者在建国初期,有人给年轻姑娘介绍对象,说某个青年老实得不会说话,或者形容说起话来连脖子也会发红,那时候特别在农村对不太会讲话的情况,似乎视为美德。如果八十年代还以此作为美德来赞扬,那是十有八九不会受到欢迎的。在“时间就是生命”的信息社会里,口头交往的机会越来越多,随着党的开放、搞 Before the liberation or in the early days of the founding of the People’s Republic, someone introduced the young girl to an audience who said that a young man was honestly unable to speak or even described his neck as being red-hot. At that time, especially in rural areas, Seems to be a virtue. If the 1980s also praised it as a virtue, it would not be welcomed in all likelihood. In the “time is life ” information society, more and more opportunities for verbal exchanges, with the party’s opening up