有些父母对孩子一味放纵娇宠,让孩子在家中称王称霸,甚至向父母发号施令。这样被娇惯的孩子实际上并不幸福,他们的种种乖戾行为往往正是缺乏自信的表现。为了改造这样的孩子,我们对父母作如下建议: 一、为了改变孩子的坏习惯,你要有思想准备忍受孩子对你发泄怒气和不满。你可能会受到威胁,但是决不能妥协让步。二、召集家庭会议,对孩子作检查:说自己在过去一个时期里忽略了做父母的责任,对五岁以下的孩子你只要强调自己是一家之长就够了。在家庭会议上,可明确作出一些新规定,例如规定晚上几点钟睡觉,坚持按时吃饭,禁止孩子看一些不适宜的电视节目等。 Some parents indulge in childish indulgence, so that children can dominate the home, and even give orders to their parents. Such being pampered children are not actually happy, and their perverse behavior is often the lack of confidence in the performance. In order to transform such children, we make the following suggestions to our parents: First, in order to change the bad habits of the children, you should be mentally prepared to endure the child’s anger and dissatisfaction with you. You may be at risk, but you should never compromise. Second, to convene family meetings to check the children: to say that they have neglected the responsibilities of parents in the past period. For children under five years old, you only have to emphasize that you are one. At family meetings, new rules can be clearly set out, such as providing for sleep at night, insisting on eating on time, and forbidding children to watch inappropriate television programs.