我清楚记得,在我们这一代人成长的过程中,大部分都经历的是“棍棒教育”、大家奉行的是“严是爱,松是害”这种批评式的教育方式。我是家中长子,父母对我非常严厉,记忆中很少得到夸奖。这也让我在以后的成长过程中,包括工作中总是不那么自信,甚至我是那样对待我的学生的。 I clearly remember that during the process of the growth of our generation, most of them have undergone a “stick education” and everyone follows the critical educational method of “strict love, loose pine”. I am the eldest son of the family, my parents are very harsh to me, and my memory is rarely praised. It also made me feel less confident at work, including at work, and even treated my students like that.