中国的家庭教育中,几千年来一直存在着一个比较明显的缺点,做父母的尤其是做母亲的,舐犊情深,总对孩子管得太多,包得太多,竭尽全力按自己的意愿去安排孩子的一切;孩子只要听话,唯父母之命是从,接受父母的安排就是了,用不着想别的东西,也不允许想别的东西。于是孩 In China’s family education, there have been some obvious shortcomings for thousands of years. Parents, especially mothers, often have too much control over their children. They try their best The child is willing to arrange everything; children just obedient, the only parent’s life is to accept the arrangements from their parents it wants, do not want something else, do not allow to think of something else. So child