忘年恋也习惯被人叫做不伦之恋。其实中年人经过岁月磨砺,更懂得爱情真谛,又因为年华渐去想极力挽留也许是最后的一段恋情。所谓无欲则刚,太想得到便会软弱无力痛苦不堪。而少年虽然得到了(一般都是)爱的启蒙,学会了如何去爱,究竟只是涉世未深,依赖大于忠诚,破坏和占有大于维持,最终走向人生的新阶段时,这段少时的恋情便宣告结束,哪怕本人十分不舍。这在电影中常常表现为少年成长的一部分。 Forget love also used to be called unlucky love. In fact, after years of sharpening middle age, but also to understand the true meaning of love, but also because of the age gradually want to strongly retain may be the last of a romance. The so-called desireless just, too weak to be painful. Although teenagers have been (usually) enlightened by love and learned how to love, it is only when they are inexperienced that they rely on more than loyalty, vandalism and possession of more than maintaining and eventually moving towards a new stage in their life. Declared the end, even if I am very sad. This is often shown in movies as part of a teenager’s growth.