对孩子们来说,有要好的小伙伴一起玩耍,是非常重要的一件事。目前城市的很多家庭里,都只有一个孩子,这些独生子女对朋友的渴望更是强烈。有的父母对自己的孩子选择什么样的朋友很在乎,他们会自觉不自觉地灌输给孩子一个选择朋友的标准。但孩子们也会有自己的标准,他们有时会认可父母的选择,有时也会对爸爸妈妈的要求不以为然。无论怎样,孩子需要伙伴,而伙伴能带给孩子快乐,只要他们在一起开心,在交往中学会接人待物,并能顺利成长,就达到交朋友的意义了。 It is very important for kids to have good friends to play with. In many families in the city today, there is only one child, and the only child's desire for friends is even stronger. Some parents care very much about what kind of friends their children choose, and they will unconsciously inculcate their children a standard of choosing friends. However, children also have their own standards. Sometimes they accept the parents' choices and sometimes disagree with the requirements of their parents. No matter what, children need partners, and partners can bring their children happiness, as long as they are happy together, learn to be connected in the middle school, and can grow smoothly, to achieve the meaning of making friends.