如果说赞扬是抚慰人灵魂的阳光,那么,批评就是照耀人灵魂的巨镜,能让人更加真实地认识自己,使人进步。前几天我碰到这么一件事:明明今天又不小心碰翻了人家的碗,像往常一样,我点了他的名字,私下还与他谈心,希望他能改掉这个小毛病。可没有想到,明明的泪水夺眶而出:“你总说我不好,你就是不喜欢我!”我大吃一惊,明明误以为我不喜欢他,我连忙补充:“我就是喜欢你,才批评你,希望你能进步。”这一下,明明才停止了哭泣,表示接受。事情已经结束,却留下我深深的思索,教师的批评也应讲究 If praising is the sunshine to soothe the soul, then criticism is a huge mirror that shines on the soul of the human being to make people more truly understand themselves and make progress. A few days ago I came across such a thing: obviously, today I accidentally knocked over the bowls of other people. As usual, I ordered his name and talked with him privately and hoped that he could get rid of this minor mistake. Can not think of, obviously tears came out: “You always say I’m not good, you just do not like me!” I was surprised, obviously mistakenly think I do not like him, I quickly added: “I just like you, criticize you, hope You can improve. ”This moment, obviously stopped crying, accepting it. Things have ended, but I left deep thought, teachers should also pay attention to criticism