一个女孩,在中学读高三,人很聪明,成绩也很好。上期期末考试不小心做错了一道题,便对家长亲戚反复讲:“我真笨,我是猪,这道题不该错”。笔者听了心里很沉重,她心理负担太重了。孩子心理担负过重,轻者会精力疲惫,缺乏热情:重者会引起急燥、焦虑、狂热、自虐、变态等多种心理障碍和疾病。因为心理负担过重,孩子打老师杀父母者有之,动不动便出走者有之,千方百计作弊作假者有之。让人触目惊心的“好学生”徐力 A girl, a third year in high school, people are very smart, good grades. Examination of the last term accidentally made a wrong question, then repeatedly told parents relatives: “I am stupid, I am a pig, this problem should not be wrong.” I heard a very heavy heart, her psychological burden is too heavy. Children psychologically overweight, light energy will be exhausted, lack of enthusiasm: severe will cause irritability, anxiety, fanatical, self-torture, metamorphosis and other psychological disorders and diseases. Because the psychological burden is too heavy, the child hits the teacher to kill the parent to have them, it is easy to leave those who have, do everything possible to cheat those who have. Amazing “good student” Xu Li