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放学回家,上小学一年级的儿子对我说:“妈妈,告诉您一个特大新闻。我们班有人谈恋爱,好几对呢！” “什么叫谈恋爱?” “就是一个男孩跟一个女孩‘嘣儿嘣儿’了呗！”儿子将两个大拇指靠在一起碰了碰,用“嘣儿嘣儿”这个不知道该如何定义的词表达了他对谈恋爱的理解。“他们在作业本上写着我爱谁谁谁,老师都批评他们了。” 在我看来,这些孩子所说的“谈恋爱”只是一种朴实得不能再朴实的感情,跟他们喜欢某件玩具、某个小动物没有什么区别。大人实在没有必要为他们上纲上线。
Go home from school, the son of the first grade of elementary school said to me: “Mom, tell you a big news. Some people in our class fall in love, several pairs!” “What is love?” “Is a boy with a girl ’ My son said, ”My son touched two thumbs together and expressed his understanding of falling in love with the word“ 嘣 儿 嘣 儿 ”, which I did not know how to define. “They write about who I love and who they criticize in their homework.” In my opinion, what these kids call “love” is just a simple feeling that they can not be simple, just as they like something Toys, a little animal no difference. There is really no need for adults to go on-line for them.