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当代为人父母者,不可不对当今孩子的特点重新认识,切莫拿他与儿时的自己比。当代的孩子最突出之处,即具有强烈的自我中心意识,一切经过自己审视而定,很少盲从。这有利亦有弊,聪明的家长唯有因势利导,方可奏效。而许多不成功的家长不仅抓住“正面教育”不放,还要“三令五申”,这就尤其适得其反。根据一项调查得出的结论,家长的申斥每重复一次,孩子的抵触情绪便增加两成。而采用“暗示”则容易取得事半功倍的效果,请看以下几种暗示。
Contemporary parents, must re-recognize the characteristics of today’s children, not to take him and childhood self ratio. Contemporary children’s most prominent place, that is, with a strong sense of self-centered, all depending on their own examination, with little blind obedience. This has both advantages and disadvantages. Only when the clever parents are quick guide can they work effectively. However, many unsuccessful parents not only grasp the “positive education” but also “make repeated orders”, which is especially counterproductive. According to the conclusion of one survey, parents repeatedly reprimanded their children’s resentment by 20%. The use of “hint” is easy to get a multiplier effect, see the following hints.