人与人之间的感情受到伤害时会使人心情不安。当有人向你抱怨他受到别人的羞辱时,你该如何作出反应呢?美国心理学家杰克.坎费尔德提出一个好建议。根据他的建议.你可以这样劝说抱怨者:“假如我对你说,‘乔,你长了绿头发’,这会使你难受吗?” When people’s feelings are hurt, they will feel uneasy. When someone complains to you that he is being humiliated by others, how do you react? American psychologist Jack Canfield puts forward a good suggestion. According to his suggestion, you can persuade the complainer to do the following: “If I say to you, ’Joe, you have green hair,’ will it make you uncomfortable?”