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失恋固然带来伤痛、绝望甚至耻辱感,但我从每一位前男友的身上,学会了反省自己。当我们说分手的时候,我往往会问一句:“请你最后,告诉我,我有什么不好?”这些,将归入我的经验档,警惕此后不犯同样的错误。治疗失恋唯一有效的方法,是开始一场新的恋爱。乔璇跟男友分手的第一周,参破全宇宙失恋的真谛,找到我,对我说她要展开新的恋爱。但是展开新的恋爱又谈何容易呢?对于良家妇女们来说,那是比再考十次大学都难的事。我看着乔璇,作为她的闺蜜,我不知该说些什么好。难道我要直言“对于32岁的大龄女来说,恋爱只能靠运气”吗?太残忍了,我说不出口。
Lovelorn certainly brings hurt, despair and even shame, but I learned from myself from every ex-boyfriend. When we say breaking up, I tend to ask: “Please tell me finally, what is wrong with me?” These will fall into my experience, beware of not making the same mistakes thereafter. The only effective way to cure lovelorn is to start a new love affair. Qiao Xuan broke up with her boyfriend the first week, the Senate broken the true meaning of the universe romance, find me, told me that she wanted to start a new love. But how easy is it to start a new love affair? For good women, it is harder than re-examining ten universities. I looked at Qiao Xuan, as her girlfriend, I do not know what to say good. Do I have to be blunt? “For a 32-year-old woman, love can only rely on luck,” is too cruel, I can not speak.