中学生中往往存在个别学生不听老师的话、与老师顶嘴、和老师对着干的现象。一些家长也抱怨:我们的孩子越来越不听话了,你说什么他就偏不做什么。明知自己做错了事,面对老师的批评、家长的指责,不但听不进,反而反感、抵触甚至采取过激的言行。中学生已经进入了青春期,青春期叛逆首先是成长的需要。这个时期,他们的身体发育和思维能力几乎和成年人一样,渴望独立,但在经济和情感上还需依赖父母。青少年的叛逆行为,是他们寻找自我的一种方式。作为教师,我们应该去理解他们行为背后渴望被尊重的心理,给出建议而不代替他们作决定,帮助他们得到自己所需要的,而不是给予师长认为重要的东西。逆反心理的产生也有成人教育的原因。如对孩子说 Middle school students often have the phenomenon that individual students do not listen to the teacher, talk with the teacher, and face the teacher. Some parents also complain that our children are becoming less and less obedient. Knowing that he has done something wrong and faced with the criticism of the teacher and the accusation of the parents, he not only fails to listen, but rather resents, contradicts and even takes extreme words and deeds. Middle school students have entered adolescence, and adolescent rebellion is first and foremost the need for growth. During this period, their physical development and thinking skills are almost the same as adults, eager to be independent, but economically and emotionally dependent on their parents. The treason of young people is a way for them to find themselves. As teachers, we should understand the psychology of their desire to be respected behind their actions, give advice instead of replacing them with decisions, and help them get what they need, rather than what the teacher thinks is important. The generation of rebellious psychology also has adult education. If you say to children