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大家应该都还记得,20年前,满耳朵听的都是“晚婚晚育”的倡导。如今呢,再不用倡导,人们已经自觉不自觉地步入了“晚婚晚育”甚至“不婚不育”的族群。儿孙满堂,膝下绕子是传统中国人向往的幸福家庭模式,而结婚生子本是天经地义的事,却成为时下许多夫妇举棋不定、左右为难的问题。早生、晚生还是不生?难以抉择。生活的压力、心里的顾虑成了他们晚生或不生的借口和理由。有人说,不是不生,而是生不起,生一个孩子的成本太大,又会牺牲掉自己大好的职业时光,但等到想要又有能力要一个孩子的时候,却晚了……孩子究竟应该何时生?影响你晚生或不生孩子的原因是什么?困惑你难以抉择的因素何在?也许答案千差万别,也许有太多的共同点。但无论你是哪种情况,还是要忠于自然规律,该生孩子的时候,我们就生吧。从这个意义上讲,早生早幸福……
Everyone should still remember that 20 years ago, all ears were advocated by “late marriage and childbearing.” Now, no longer advocate, people have consciously or unconsciously entered the “late marriage and childbearing” or even “not married infertility” ethnic groups. Children and grandchildren, under the knees around the traditional Chinese longing for the happy family model, and marriage and child-based is a matter of course, but nowadays many couples indecisive, dilemma. Early life, late life or not? Difficult choices. The pressure of life, the heart of concern has become an excuse and reason for their late life or not born. Some people say that not being born, but not giving birth, a child is too costly, will sacrifice their good career, but when you want and have the ability to have a child, it is too late ... Children What exactly should be born? What is the cause of your late or unborn child? What are the factors that confuse you? Perhaps the answer varies, and there may be too many things in common. But no matter what kind of situation you are, or you should be loyal to the laws of nature, when the children, we are born. In this sense, early morning happy ......