《儿子与情人》自问世以来得到了评论家的广泛关注。人们围绕小说中母亲与儿子畸形的爱恋展开讨论。论证它与弗洛伊德理论中俄狄普斯情节的关系。本文试从逃避主义分析造成小说中主要人物矛盾冲突的主要原因。通过分析逃避主义在各个人物身上的表现,解释小说中父亲与母亲的矛盾,母亲对孩子感情的寄托,孩子对父亲的憎恨以及对母亲的眷恋。阐述说明由于母亲对儿子强烈的爱和精神上的独占,使得小说主人公保罗在顺从母亲意志的同时也在潜意识进行迫切的逃遁,试图通过与其他女性的爱情为途径寻求作为成年男子独立的生存规律,体现了逃避这一行为所暗含的勇气。 Since the advent of “son and lover” has been widely criticized by critics. People around the novel mother and son deformity of love to discuss. Demonstrating its relationship with the episodes of Oedipus in Freud ’s theory. This essay tries to analyze the main reasons for the contradictions and conflicts between the main characters in the novel from the analysis of the evasionism. By analyzing the manifestations of evasionism in various personalities, this paper explains the contradiction between father and mother in the novel, the mother ’s affection to her children, the child’ s hatred to her father and their attachment to her mother. Elaborated that because of the mother’s strong love for his son and spiritual monopoly, making the hero of the novel in compliance with the will of the mother, but also in the subconscious of an urgent escape, trying to love with other women as a way to find an independent living law as an adult man , Reflects the courage that escapes this behavior implies.