一位中年男士来到心理咨询室,请求我的帮助。他先作了一番自述:结婚25年,我是“资深”丈夫,却不是自由的丈夫。在家里没有一点自由的时间和空间,妻子黏在我的身边,对我的任何事情都十分关心,开始还觉得蛮幸福,但随着时间的推移,我越来越觉得心力交瘁。妻子因我前女友的事,对我多出了一份警惕,于是涉及异性,妻子超级敏感,比如,家里电话一响,妻子立即抛下手中的活去接电话,只要是女的找我,我接电话的时候她一 A middle-aged man came to the counseling room and asked for my help. He first made a statement: 25 years of marriage, I am “senior ” husband, but not a free husband. There was not a bit of free time and space at home. My wife was stuck beside me, very concerned with everything about me, and I was quite happy at first. However, as time went by, I became more and more frustrated. My wife because of my ex-girlfriend, gave me a more vigilance, so involving the opposite sex, his wife super-sensitive, for example, the phone home, his wife immediately left hands to answer the phone, as long as the woman looking for me, She was the one when I answered the phone