老年自有老年的乐趣,中年自有中年的追求。少年自有少年的天地。贾母虽老却不糊涂.她深谙个中道理,因此她注意到尽可能为孙辈们创造无拘无束地玩耍、取乐的天地。可不是,大设春灯雅迷之际,原来是宝玉们长谈阔论之时。只因贾政这个道学家在场,一个个“拑口禁语”、“不肯多话”、“便唯唯而已”,于是“家常取乐,反见拘束”,贾母知情,便笑道:“你在这里,他们都不敢说笑”,“便撵贾政去歇息”。贾政一走,宝玉马上“如同开了锁的猴儿一般”。宝黛姐妹们在芦雪庭拥炉做诗,兴意正浓,贾母忽至,但这个聪明的老人为了不扫大家的兴,忙笑着说:“你们只管照旧玩笑 Old age has old age pleasure, middle age has its own pursuit of middle age. The juvenile has its own world. Although she is old, she is not confused. She knows the truth in the middle, so she has noticed as far as possible creating a world of unfettered play and enjoyment for her grandchildren. No, when the big lights were set up, it was when Baoyu talked about it. Just because Jia Zheng, a Taoist, was present, one by one, “a ban on the jaws,” “he refused to speak more,” and “it was only because he was alone,” and then “the family was always happy, but she was unwilling to be constrained.” When Jia mother knew her, she smiled and said: “ You are here, they are afraid to joking “,” “Jia Zheng will go to rest.” When Jia Zhengyi left, Baoyu immediately “was like a monkey who opened a lock”. The sisters of Breguet’s poetry in Lu Xueting’s possession of the poems were full of enthusiasm and Jia Mu’s arrival, but this clever old man laughed and said, “Just as a joke.