“贵在参与”是我们耳熟能详的一句话,但若把“参与”二字用在孩子身上,有的家长就会不以为然:孩子那么小,会参与啥?其实不然。首先,参与是儿童的权利,《联合国儿童权利公约》特别明确每个儿童都有参与家庭、文化和社会生活的权利,儿童有权就所有影响他们生活的事项发表意见。作为一名家庭成员,儿童的参与权更多地表现在与父母的沟通、交流和互动上。儿童有自己的关注点,有自己的眼光和设想,父母应尊重他们的意见和建议,尽管他们的有些想法看起来很幼稚,但这是孩子可贵的参与意识的萌芽。其次,未来社会充满竞争,孩子的参与意识和参与能力将直接关系到他能否适应这个社会。因此,家长应重视培养孩子的参与意识,多给他们提供决策和承担责任的机会,让他们在实践中增强参与能力,为将来参与社会打下坚实基础。 “Involvement ” is our familiar word, but if the “participation ” word used in children, and some parents will not agree: children are so small, will participate in what is not? First of all, participation is a child’s right. The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child makes it clear that every child has the right to participate in family, cultural and social life. Children have the right to express opinions on all matters that affect their lives. As a family member, children’s rights to participation are more often expressed in their communication, interaction and interaction with their parents. Children have their own concerns and have their own vision and vision. Parents should respect their opinions and suggestions. Although some of their ideas may seem naive, it is the seed of a child’s valuable sense of participation. Second, the future of society is full of competition, children’s sense of participation and ability to participate will be directly related to his ability to adapt to this society. Therefore, parents should attach importance to cultivating children’s sense of participation, give them more opportunities for decision-making and responsibility, let them enhance their ability to participate in practice and lay a solid foundation for their future participation in society.