嫉妒现象是人际交往中的一种最普遍的心理反应。只要有人的地方,只要存在着人与人之间的关系和联系,就存在着人对人的嫉妒:被人嫉妒,嫉妒剐人。由嫉妒产生的敌意常常会造成恶果,甚至是灾难性的,这是众所周知的事。但这仅仅是看到问题的一个方面,其实“嫉妒”并非一无是处,它也有积极的一面。这是对嫉妒现象作过透彻研究的德国慕尼黑心理学家迪特尔·弗赖的新见解。弗赖解释说,嫉妒可以分为两种,一 Jealousy is one of the most common psychological reactions in interpersonal communication. As long as there is a human being, as long as there is a relationship and connection between people, there is a human envy: being jealous and jealous. It is a well-known fact that the enmity engendered by jealousy often leads to evil consequences, even catastrophic. But this is only one aspect of the problem. In fact, “jealousy” is not without merit. It also has a positive side. This is a new insight on Diettel Frei, a German psychologist in Munich who has studied thoroughly the phenomenon of jealousy. Frye explained that jealousy can be divided into two kinds, one