最无力的时候是什么支撑着我不断前进呢?如果一个人长期努力后依然得不到理想的结果,甚至连最初的希望也越来越渺茫,难免开始对前期的付出进行自我否定,甚至对影响个人成长的社会环境也产生了怀疑。特别是当看到一些出身好、家境好的人不费吹灰之力就取得了自己竭尽全力都无法得到的结果时,这种心理就会更加凸显。这种心理最正常不过了。十几年前读过这样一篇文章——《我奋斗了十八年才能和你坐在一起喝咖啡》,大意是说出身不好或曰成长环境不好的人想要获得同样的成绩往往比出身好的人花费更大的代价。这句话在当 What is the most powerless propulsion me to keep moving forward? If one still can not get the desired result after long-term efforts, even the initial hope is getting slimmer, it will inevitably start to negate the previous pay-off, The social environment that affects personal growth also raises doubts. This psychology will become even more conspicuous when it comes to seeing the results of a few well-born and well-off people effortlessly able to obtain without any effort. This kind of mentality is the most normal. More than a decade ago read an article - “I’ve been fighting for eighteen years to sit down with me and drink coffee,” to the effect that people who are poor or do not have a good environment want the same results. Spend more than a good person who cost. This sentence is at work