在朋友家闲坐,无意之中发现朋友为孩子擦皮鞋时只擦一只。朋友解释说,这是她创造的一种教育孩子的方法,因为这样可以迫使孩子为了两只鞋一样整洁,而自己动手将另外一只鞋擦干净。如果经常这样做,就能使孩子形成自觉的卫生习惯。这看起来是一桩小事,却反映出一个成功的教育方式。这位母亲抓住了孩子爱清洁的心理,并在教育方法上加进了幽默的色彩,她不是强迫而是积极地引导。在很多场合下,我们都能看到一些不爱动脑筋的父母,为了让孩子接受自己的意愿而不停地唠叨,甚至伴以讽刺和挖苦。用这种简单粗暴的教 Sitting in a friend’s house, inadvertently found friends rubbed shoes for children only wipe one. A friend explained that this was a way she had created to educate children because it would force children to be as tidy as two shoes and wipe their other shoe clean. If you do this often, you can make your child form a conscious hygienic habit. This may seem a trifle, but it reflects a successful approach to education. The mother caught the child’s love of cleanliness and added a humorous approach to education. She was not forcibly but actively directed. On many occasions, we can see some uninterested parents, nagging, even satirical and sarcastic in order to let the children accept their own wishes. Use this simple rude teaching